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Then seemingly out of nowhere, things got weird: Dates were postponed indefinitely, texts went unanswered, and eventually, my confused friend waved his white flag."I'm not heartbroken about it or anything," he said. She seemed like a normal girl who was into me..then she disappeared?
"My friend, you just got "ghosted.""Ghosting" or "slow fading" (by my own definition, so don't get this tattooed or anything) describes the ending of a relationship by one party who gradually removes him or herself from the other person's life—via canceled plans and decreased communication—until eventually, all communication ceases. As someone who's been on the unfortunate end of the relationship slow fade, or "ghosting," more times than I can even count, I've become hardened to the notion that, for lots of guys in their twenties and thirties, falling off the face of the earth after wooing a lady for a month or two is pretty much par for the really shitty course.
"I assume that a girl who's interested in a guy is working toward a relationship," he said, "and guys are more trying to see how long they can hook up with a girl without having to commit to monogamy.
I'm not saying it's a rule, or that it's great..that's usually how things shake out." But, is it?
Ultimately I polled 185 young people—120 women and 65 men—on their dating (and breakup) habits.
Provided with the definition of "slow fading" as stated above, I asked each respondent about his or her history with ghosting.Which brings us to a grand total of, yep: 50 percent. Maybe my friend's pre-GF's fade into infinity wasn't so unusual after all...Peg Streep, author of Mastering The Art of Quitting: Why It Matters in Life, Love, and Work and a blogger for Psychology Today who specializes in relationships in the digital age, was just as surprised by my findings.Sadly there's no blanket for what does land, but still-confident-and-a-little-self-deprecating is usually a solid approach that can be really charming when used well.” Dan Gentile is a staff writer on Thrillist's National Food and Drink team.He'd like to thank all the women who contributed to this.It deserves no more than a 'thank you' if accepted.” “You don't really know if the lady is having a bad day and just wants to be alone, or is having a great day and is hunting. Plus, a guy steps into unknown territory, while the bartender has already been talking to this person.” “I feel like having the right mindset going in is key.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating