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Before we start talking about “Dating in Japan” one thing should be crystal clear: If you’ve ever been to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a tremendous number of (often not so handsome) foreign guys walking hand-in-hand with Japanese women.

However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!

And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!

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Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.

stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).

You’ll start to feel completely unattractive and ignored at times.

Of course, you get a lot of attention and there’s all this staring, but it’s not because anybody is flirting with you … It might be a different story in bigger cities such as Tokyo and Osaka with a more international community, but in smaller cities and in the countryside with more traditional ideals it can be very difficult for foreign women.

For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.

The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.

For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!

They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.

I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.

When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.

Because of all that I’ve seen couples who got divorced, even when there were kids involved.

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