Law of attraction and online dating

Like any other sort of manifestation, we never really have to do anything.When we try to create from action, without being energetically aligned with what we want, it tends not to go well.Not because finding love is an inherently more difficult thing to manifest, or because the Universe thinks we really have to ‘earn’ it and prove we are worthy of a proper mate.

The second reason is the idea that being single is ‘wrong’, that it indicates some sort of dysfunction in us.

We make finding a relationship the most important thing in life, and if we’re not in one, something is most certainly amiss.

And yes, we are social creatures and we didn’t come into this experience to go it solo, wandering around on our own for all our days, like a jaguar in the jungle.

So there is nothing wrong with wanting a relationship—a good one can be a beautiful, fulfilling experience.

Take advantage of your single status to really do this work on yourself and let in something awesome.

Give yourself a pat on the back that you are giving yourself permission to ‘go for the gold,’ and that you aren’t just going to let anyone in.

But that still doesn’t change the fact that there is nothing wrong with not being in one.

If you are trying to create a relationship from a space where you are resisting and lamenting your single status, you’re in for a frustrating manifesting experience.

This doesn’t necessarily mean you won’t ever get a relationship—you very well can, but it won’t be a good one, it will be one that will be mirroring back a whole bunch of crap to you that is likely blocking the great relationship that you actually want.

In making peace with being single, it will be easier for you to let go of the non-matches.

You will come to see that things like ‘nice’ and ‘being respectful’ are not desirable qualities but absolute bare minimums.

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